What to Wear to a Summer Wedding: The Ultimate Guide to Looking Good and Staying Cool

Summer weddings are some of the most memorable events of the year—sunshine, stunning venues, long golden hours, and those relaxed, joyful vibes. But figuring out what to wear can be surprisingly tricky. You want to look put together without overheating, dress appropriately for the location and dress code, and maybe even stand out (but not…

Summer weddings are some of the most memorable events of the year—sunshine, stunning venues, long golden hours, and those relaxed, joyful vibes. But figuring out what to wear can be surprisingly tricky. You want to look put together without overheating, dress appropriately for the location and dress code, and maybe even stand out (but not too much). Whether you’re attending a garden party in the countryside, a sunset ceremony by the sea, or a chic city wedding, the right outfit makes all the difference.

Here’s your complete guide to dressing for a summer wedding, what to wear, what to avoid, and where to find it.

Start with the Dress Code

Before you dive into colours, fabrics, or hemlines, take a look at the invitation. If the couple has included a dress code, follow it. Black tie, cocktail, formal, semi-formal, beach casual, these cues help you narrow down your choices. If the invite is vague, consider the venue and time of day. Evening weddings are typically dressier than daytime ones. And if you’re ever unsure, it’s better to be slightly overdressed than too casual.

For Women: What to Wear

Flowy Dresses in Light Fabrics

When the weather heats up, breathable fabrics are essential. Look for dresses made from linen, silk, cotton, chiffon, or blends of these. Flowy midi and maxi dresses are ideal—they feel formal without being stiff, and they move beautifully in the breeze. Styles with open backs, spaghetti straps, or off-the-shoulder cuts keep you cool while still looking elegant.

Florals, pastels, and soft prints always work for daytime weddings. For evening, consider richer tones like terracotta, emerald, or navy, or go bold with solid jewel colours like fuchsia or cobalt.

Try:

  • Reformation – Sustainable, romantic silhouettes that flatter every shape
  • Zimmermann – High-end with a whimsical, bohemian edge
  • ASOS Edition – Great for budget-friendly, occasion-ready pieces
  • Ghost London – Beautiful bias-cut satin and vintage-inspired styles
  • Aje – Structured yet feminine, great for fashion-forward events

Chic Jumpsuits and Two-Piece Sets

Dresses aren’t your only option. A tailored jumpsuit or two-piece set can be just as elegant—think wide-leg pants with a cropped top or a softly structured blazer with matching trousers. Look for breathable materials and designs that still feel festive. For a playful touch, choose soft pastels or modern prints.

Try:

  • Shona Joy – Sleek, minimal designs perfect for summer formality
  • Misha – Elegant tailoring with a sultry edge
  • Manning Cartell – Polished and a bit daring
  • Camilla and Marc – Clean lines and tonal colours for a timeless look

Consider Short Dresses (With the Right Vibe)

If it’s a more casual or beachside wedding, a short dress can work beautifully. Opt for styles that feel special, think lace, puff sleeves, or ruffles, and avoid anything too bodycon or club-like. A-line shapes, wrap dresses, or baby doll cuts are great for staying cool while looking polished.

Shoes: Beauty Meets Comfort

Footwear can make or break your day. For outdoor weddings, skip stilettos (no one wants to sink into grass or sand). Instead, go for block heels, wedges, elegant flats, or dressy sandals. Metallic finishes, strappy silhouettes, or embellished details keep it formal without the pain.

Try:

  • Tony Bianco – Great variety of stylish heels and sandals
  • Alias Mae – Modern and comfortable
  • Aeyde – Sleek leather flats and minimalist heels
  • Senso – Trendy and well-made with a slight edge

Accessories and Extras

Complete your outfit with a compact clutch or crossbody bag, something small but polished. Add statement earrings or layered gold jewellery to elevate the look, and consider a wide-brim hat or silk scarf for daytime ceremonies. A light shawl, wrap, or cropped blazer is a smart add-on for cooler evenings or air-conditioned venues.

For Men: What to Wear

Lightweight Suits in Seasonal Colours

Summer is the time to leave the black and charcoal suits in the wardrobe. Lighter colours like beige, pale grey, sky blue, or soft olive feel fresher and more in tune with the season. Linen suits, or blends of linen and cotton, offer breathability while still looking sharp.

If the wedding is more relaxed, you can ditch the full suit for tailored trousers and a button-up with a light blazer. If it’s beachside, even dress shorts with a crisp shirt can work (as long as it’s allowed).

Try:

  • Saba – Modern suiting with a clean, casual finish
  • MJ Bale – Excellent for classic tailoring in warm-weather fabrics
  • Politix – Trend-driven suits with bold cuts and details
  • Todd Snyder – Understated and high-quality for city weddings
  • Uniqlo – Affordable and breathable for more casual looks

Skip the Tie (If You Can)

Unless the dress code is black tie, summer weddings are a great opportunity to go without a tie. Leave the top button open, opt for a patterned shirt or a relaxed collar, and you’ll feel much more comfortable. If you still want a tie, go for something light in fabric and tone, linen, silk, or even a knit.

Dress Shoes That Breathe

Leather loafers, suede brogues, or even clean, minimal sneakers (for casual weddings) are great choices. Go for light colours, think tan, sand, or soft brown. No-show socks are ideal, or wear breathable liners to stay comfortable through dancing and speeches.

Beach and Destination Weddings

If you’re heading to a destination or beach wedding, lean into relaxed formality. For women, that might mean a flowy sundress with polished accessories. For men, linen shirts and tailored shorts or light trousers work perfectly. Just remember, even relaxed weddings still call for effort. Flip-flops, board shorts, or casual gymwear are still off the table.

What Not to Wear

  • White or cream—unless the couple has specifically said it’s okay
  • Anything too revealing or too casual—crop tops, denim, and bodycon clubwear are a no
  • Overly flashy or branded pieces—let the couple be the centre of attention
  • Stilettos on grass or sand—save them for indoor venues
  • Heavy fabrics like velvet or thick synthetics—you’ll regret it in the heat

The perfect summer wedding outfit is one that fits the occasion, suits your personal style, and keeps you comfortable all day and night. Opt for breathable fabrics, thoughtful tailoring, and accessories that elevate your look without overcomplicating it. Whether you’re dancing under the stars, sipping champagne in a vineyard, or watching vows exchanged by the sea, the right outfit helps you enjoy every minute of the celebration—without overheating or feeling out of place.

Photo by Kyle Roxas

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