What Selena Gomez’s Cabo Bachelorette Tells Us About Her Upcoming Wedding

With the big day just around the corner, Selena Gomez’s bachelorette weekend in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, offered more than just a fun girls’ getaway, it gave us a peek into what her wedding might feel like: traditional touches wrapped in laid‑back, joyful vibes.

A Bride-to-Be in White

Selena leaned into classic bridal style without making things stuffy. She wore multiple white ensembles – everything from a cute bikini to an elegant mini beaded halter dress. The veil embroidered with “bride to be” and décor like “Mrs. Levin” balloons added sweet, traditional touches without overdoing it.

Fun, Low-Key, and Full of Joy

There was nothing over‑the‑top or formal about the weekend. Think yacht outings with a close‑knit group of friends, a candlelit beach dinner, a beach screening of Wedding Crashers (because, of course), dancing around their villa, mariachi serenades, and even a bridal scrunchie moment, Selena’s bringing back those ’80s/’90s vibes in style. It felt personal, relaxed, and fun, a perfect blend of party and intimacy.

What It Hints About the Wedding

Putting those observations together, here’s what this bachelorette weekend suggests we might see at the real deal:

A small, intimate celebration. All signs point to a two‑day wedding in Montecito, California this September, kept intentionally cozy and limited to close friends and family, even though some big names (like Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce) are expected to attend.
Laid‑back, meaningful details. Selena has stated she doesn’t want a big wedding cake, instead, just a mini cake for her and Benny to freeze later, and wants to serve her Nana’s biscuits and gravy as dessert. That mix of personal, homey food with a breezy vibe echoes what we saw in Mexico.
A “chill but amazing” wedding. Benny Blanco described their upcoming nuptials as exactly that, simple, heartfelt, and reflective of who they are.

That Cabo weekend didn’t just look like a birthday party with a bridal twist, every detail, from the white outfits to the chill, joyful vibe, felt like a taste of what the wedding will be. Expect a day (or two) that’s elegant in its simplicity, deeply personal, and yes, fun, with meaningful elements that reflect Selena’s world, with plenty of classic bride moments.